It takes two to tangle and play the game!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Relationship to me is between a man and a woman, who are from different backgrounds, with different upbringings, who share different views to life. The essence of relationship is to understand each other's extreme wants, needs and desires. These wants, needs and desires vary from social, psychological, financial, educational and so on. It is left for the individuals to discover these varying needs and wants, discuss it and find a non-manipulating way to make things work between them.
I have discovered, overtime, that people breakup because of these differences. Love is not built in a day. people are not perfect, people were not created to be perfect. We are meant to grow together inlove, help each other to grow, correct one another, above all, pray about it and move on.
It can not be all sweet, you know, candles in the doorway to the room, bath tub.BOMB!!!!!!! We need to face the fact o, not that these things should not be done, but do not expect it every noght. If your boyfriend has been doing it and all of a sudden stops, please do not nag, do somtething special for him instead, thats the only way you can find out what went wrong.
Its not necesary you should have the same attitude, infact, it'll be very boring. I like to tell people, like my father would say and i quote "the only way to survive in this life is to manage people".
You should not work away from him/her immediately you discover some workable dots. Try work things out and pray to God. Remember,God is the only perfect match maker.
It takes two to tangle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ReplyDeleteRelationship to me is not mathematics. It is all hard work,lazy people can't survive there because you don't build relationship on 'wishful' expectations.
ReplyDeleteThe problem is that many people expects so much from a relationship that they have not invested anything in. You build your house before living in it, so also you build a relationship before it can work.
With the recent turn out of event in our society, it takes more than two to tangle. The issue of double dating is so predominant in our life style now, reason being that, we are not satisfied with what we have or whom we are involve with and most importantly, our moral values have nose dived into the deep blue sea. An average babe wants a finished goods so she could have a good life at the expense of a good relationship.
ReplyDelete@vincent i agree with you, but not totally. you should know that some ladies do not just act based on deires, they react to their past. meanwhile a lady who is ready for marriage, who truly loves you, will not bother about material things, but you as a man, don't be stingy, give your babe what you know you should give her. we have friends o remeber, and some people(even men)can be easily influenced. think about it!
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